I don’t know what kind of odd colds are going around your parts, but I do know that this one I had was not a team player. It knocked me on my rear!

Even my oldest son complained about it.

I’m currently still struggling to pull it together. I promise I’ll get back in there and catch up my posts soon.

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C was a bright and gifted student. Because of this, he often finished his work quickly or he ended up bored in class. The teacher he had before me stated that she asked mom if the child had worms or had been checked for worms because he was super skinny, but he was always asking other kids in the lunchroom for their breakfast or lunch. I ignored that and focused on teaching the child.

Soon, I began to notice he would often visit my classroom during his activity class in the afternoon. He would request to go to the bathroom (which was next door to my classroom) and stop in my room when I was eating my lunch. Always he’d ask, “Are you going to eat that?” Sometimes, if I had extra, I would give him what he requested.

It was a little later, when the Math teacher who was hired at the same time came to me to discuss C. She found out after talking to him that he wasn’t eating at home. We did report it, but nothing was really done about it. Instead, we would bring non-perishable food that he could take with him (he would either store what we gave him in his book bag to take home, or put them in his locker) and perishable food he could consume right then. See, what we found out is that he was being made to eat a bug before he was allowed to have dinner.

If what he was going through food-wise wasn’t enough to break my heart, the rest was. His parents fought over custody, not to mention the fact that mom didn’t want to give up her check. She loved on his sibling and talked down to him. It was heart breaking to hear how she talked about him with him in the same room.

He was highly medicated to the point that the medication caused him hallucinations. The day I had to write him up for “mooning” his classmates pained me. The episode was brought on by the medication and not the behavior the meds were supposed to treat.

Before long, mom decided to put him in a behavior camp. I cried the day he left for camp, but my assistant principal said the one thing that I knew to be true: At least he will be away from her. We all knew. We knew that he was better off, but we just hoped that the people at the camp would see what we saw: A broken boy in need of love.

The lesson I learned in my 2nd year of teaching is that no matter what, I had to show my students love. I had to be their cheerleader and support even if they were the worst student in the class. Doing so, I realized that some of my worst students managed to become my best. It may have been difficult with some students. Especially the students who had built up walls to protect themselves. Those were the ones that I had to break through piece-by-piece to find the vulnerable student underneath. But had I not had C to show me what students needed, I wouldn’t have known to stick with the challenge.

After my encounter with C, I kept snacks in my room, had praise ready on my lips, and always found a way to find the good in my students. He may have been a challenging student, but once he allowed himself to become vulnerable in front of me, it allowed me an opportunity to teach him and be the teacher he needed. It was a lesson that I still remember to this day.

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For me, blogging started out as a way to take my journaling to a digital platform. It gave me the ability to not only share what I was going through, but to take chances with different styles of writing until I was able to craft my own writer’s voice. Grant it, it wasn’t always easy.

When I first began, it was not about teaching. It was about my struggle with my weight, exercise, and dieting, along with my affinity with a certain NASCAR driver who is now retired, and no, it was not Dale Jr. despite what people may think. I used this as a way to work through things. It became my emotional outlet.

The teaching blog? It was also my emotional outlet. A way to deal with those things that as a teacher we have to let go of if we are to move on.

I never expected teaching to be so filled with emotional heaviness, but as soon as I saw the disparaging differences in socioeconomics, I was filled with a heaviness. I first described it as a culture shock. I was surprised to see how different things were. I may have grown up poor, but I grew up in a 2 parent household. I didn’t have to go see one in prison. There were no visitations. Things were good. Wrapping my head around my students’ truths was not so easy. So I took to blogging to keep my sanity and keep my journaling in the digital realm.

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The word “FLEX” has been used, but considering it was used in a Will Smith (Fresh Prince) song from the 90s, was it really new? For some reason, old things become new again, and word meanings change.

Skibidi Toilet pretty much became the bane of my existence, along with Sigma. The combination of that with Ohio and Rizz left me bumfuzzled. When I thought I understood it in the correct context, something changed.

Apparently, Skibidi Toilet is something that isn’t good and when paired with Ohio, it is much worse. But Rizz is charisma, while Sigma means to be in charge. You’re the big dog. Basically an Alpha, but you are all alone in your alpha-ness. You don’t need a pack beneath you to prove you are the best.

Yes, I made this mistake. I had laryngitis and the only way to have a voice was to talk much deeper than normal. Pair that with me stepping in front of a male student about to harrass a female, and well, one thing led to another, and I proclaimed that I was the Alpha in my classroom. I was dominant. My room. My rules. I was in charge.

Don’t do that. You will never live it down.

Just trust me on this.

The best thing to do is to demand that they use regular language in the classroom unless they are prepared for whatever consequences for using the slang may be. Just keep up with what is trending. Otherwise, it could get quite interesting.

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• Pentel Energel Retractable Pens: These pens write smoothly with no smearing.
• Better Office Products Folders with Pockets: I used these for bellwork and even writing folders. They come in several different colors and I was able to get a class set.
• Dabo&Shabo Highlighters 60 pk: If you teach ELA, these come in handy for highlighting.
• Ticonderoga Wood case Pencils: These are by far the best pencils.

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We may come up with some crazy kind of game with the kids, or become kids ourselves chasing each other around with the water guns, but just know that it will involve being outside and having a blast just hanging out with family and friends.

For the food, it’s going to involve an absolute feast. We will definitely have grilled burgers, but the grilled hot dogs and the potato salad are going to be the stars of the show.

I’ve made the same potato salad for years. If you want the recipe, you’ll find it here.

The same goes with the chili for the hot dogs. You’re going to need a beer for that one. Find the recipe for the chili here.

Once you’ve made those, just know that people will be beating down the door to get to your next cookout.

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This past school year was nice having a ten day break between each 9 weeks, but our district decided to do away with that and just have two long breaks when we normally would have them (Christmas and Spring Break). Without school ending early, its still a long year with a short summer. With so many taking courses during the summer to pursue Masters, it really leaves no time to relax and unwind. It was one of the reasons why I created my ideal travel destinations with long and short trips.

The best way to take a vacay or break is to go on some short day trips or trips that do not require a long length of travel time to get there and back. By doing this, you can get out and have some fun, but you are not going to be as exhausted when you get back. Short energizing trips are just as great as those longer trips.

What’s your favorite short trip destination? Comment below.

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Truthfully, I went searching for information on classroom ideas, and I realized that while there were many blogs about Elementary and even High School, but Middle School seemed to be left out of the loop. Especially when it came to ELA teachers.

You’ll also find that I do try to cover different trends with teaching reading and writing to middle school. Middle school is its own animal, so to speak. Elementary is cute and high school is more elevated, but middle school requires a special type of teacher. Plus, these days, finding ways to engage middle school students in the middle of the “Skibbidi Ohio Toilet Rizz Tuesday Tuesday So Sigma” era of slang can be challenging as well.

For that, I offer my blog.

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In the past, I have tried the colored baskets to turn in work, and it didn’t work effectively. Students failed to remember what color basket was their grade level. I have even tried the lovely mail sort shelves, but even that didn’t work.

This year I decided to have almost everything online, and those things that were not, would have their own space in the room. For example, each class would have their own bellwork folders that were color coded. Writing notebooks or folders would have a space of their own separate from the bellwork folders. Plus, the iReady sheets would have their own space in class labeled file boxes.

Throughout the year, what I found was that bellwork folders did not get returned to their space, or they were placed in another class (which was obvious since they were color coded). The writing folders were placed in the wrong spot, and this was problematic due to the fact that these were NOT color coded. And as for the iReady section? Don’t get me started about how students shoved their trash and unwanted food into the file boxes.

I would have had better luck if I had just kept everything online, but unfortunately I had a few that lost their computer privileges and had to have paper copies of everything.

Even the lovely supplies that I put out in their own individual containers were stolen from said containers. If someone finds a solution for organization that truly works in middle school, let me know. I’d love to see it.

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I just can’t do this anymore.

I tried to tough it out and thought that perhaps it was nothing more than a rough spot in the road, but soon it became obvious that it was so much more than that.

A student that I don’t teach this year, but whom I would teach next year, begged me to stay. I told her that it wouldn’t matter. God has a way of moving me forward, and I’ve been praying for Him to do just that. I want to try something new, or perfect something old. Either way, if I stayed, He would only make me more miserable until I complied.

I have wanted to step out and do more, but I’ve been so afraid to take that leap. I would love to take what I’ve learned through teaching and to apply it to a different subject. Despite what we think as teachers, we do gain skills that we can apply to so many other situations. Our multi-tasking, peace making, teaching, counseling, negotiating, and even computer skills can be used in a variety of settings. I’m excited to be able to move forward.

For me, it’s business. I’ve wanted to run my own business for such a long time, and now that I have the space (thanks to my son for buying me a home that we are perfecting the perfect studio space for me) I can do just that. Plus, I’ve already found new clients. It’s a win-win for me.

For those still stuck in the trenches… I’ll be praying for you. This group of students is so very different. It’s the age we are in. Not actual age in years, but this generation.

Besides, there are only so many skibidi sigma Tuesday toilets I can take.

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